Kickin' Tail, Takin' Hugs

I like to hug.
I'm secure enough to say that.

I've been hugging and enjoying it for years. Whether it's a teammate, a friend or family, get on in here and get some! Sure, sometimes it's the handshake, then slip into the hug. It's more acceptable for the menfolk this way. But no matter how you get there, you end up in the same place.

When I learned I had lymphoma, I spoke with my good friend and former co-worker, Mark Prater. He had a scare and underwent chemotherapy a few years back, and I wanted to talk with him about his experience. We went over how bad news about your health can help you prioritize your life. I told him I had been hugging my little girl a little tighter in the mornings. Mark has four kids; he understood.

My poor family. I mean, I was huggy before. Now I'm asking for hugs all the time. Heck, I demand them from my four-year-old. "You want a popsicle??? I want a big hug!" And if she wants to act shy, then I take a hug(and add a tickle, if I'm in the mood)

I guess I'm asking you to not wait for bad news. Take a hug today, whether it's from your child, your brother or just a friend. Start with the handshake, if it makes it easier. Tickle is optional.